Marriage Is Like Planting a Tree, Say Authors of “Moto Moto Couple”

 

 In a compelling new guide for couples, authors Akello Oliech and Dayan Masinde liken marriage to planting and nurturing a tree, highlighting the patience, care, and intentionality required for a relationship to thrive.

In their book, “Moto Moto Couple”, the authors draw parallels between the growth of a tree and the growth of a marriage, offering practical advice for couples seeking to strengthen their bond.

Key lessons from the book include:

1. Plant the Seed in the Right Soil – Just as trees require suitable soil, a marriage needs a strong foundation to flourish. Couples must intentionally set their marriage up for success.

2. Water It – Relationships require daily nurturing, including spending quality time together, celebrating each other, praying, and speaking positively about the marriage.

3. Attend to It Privately – Many of the efforts that sustain a marriage occur away from public view, highlighting the importance of consistent private investment.

4. Remove the Weeds – Threats such as ego, past relationships, selfishness, and distractions must be addressed to protect the union.

5. Be Patient – Like trees, marriages take time to bear fruit. Couples must endure both rainy and sunny seasons.

6. Embrace Uniqueness – No two marriages are the same. Each couple should cultivate a relationship that reflects their own story and values.

7. Enjoy the Fruits – A well-tended marriage yields peace, security, joy, and companionship.

8. Attract Blessings – Healthy marriages not only benefit the couple but also positively influence their communities.

9. Leave a Legacy – Just as trees can outlive those who plant them, a strong marriage can leave a lasting impact for future generations.

The book also addresses 21 critical issues affecting every relationship, including work-life balance, finances, intimacy, communication, in-laws, and rekindling love. Akello Oliech provides the female perspective on these challenges, while Dayan Masinde offers insights from a male viewpoint.

Couples interested in the book can get a digital copy of “Moto Moto Couple” for Ksh. 400 via M-Pesa:

1. Send payment to 0721590954

2. Text your email address to 0721590954

3. Receive the digital book and download it on your phone or computer

According to Dr. John Mining, a local family counselor and commentator on relationship matters, the book provides practical, culturally relevant advice that can help couples cultivate stronger, more fulfilling marriages.

“Viewing marriage as a living entity, like a tree, underscores the importance of continuous care, patience, and nurturing. This approach resonates with couples who want lasting, meaningful relationships,” Dr. Mining said.

With its relatable metaphors and actionable guidance, “Moto Moto Couple” is fast becoming a go-to resource for couples seeking to deepen intimacy and build a legacy of love.