Foolish Decisions By Men Destroying Families ,Says Dr Mining

 

 

 In a striking and unapologetic exposé, relationship and life strategist Dr. John Mining has issued a bold warning to men living lives of reckless indulgence while abandoning their core responsibilities at home.

According to Dr. Mining, a growing number of men are projecting false images of success in public — spending lavishly on strangers and side attractions — while their own families suffer in silence.

“The foolishness of some men today is louder than a generator at 2 AM,” Dr. Mining said during a press briefing on Tuesday. “They call themselves wise, but their actions scream otherwise.”

Here are the five destructive mistakes Dr. Mining highlighted — mistakes he says are increasingly common and deeply damaging.

1. Feeding Strangers While Your Family Starves

Dr. Mining criticized men who neglect their families but are quick to spend on women who show them temporary attention.

“Your wife asks for cooking money, you tell her to manage. Your children need school supplies, you say times are tough. But let a slay queen say ‘I’m craving pizza’, and you’re on your way to Domino’s faster than a delivery bike,” he said.

He added: “Your own family is hungry, yet you’re feeding someone who is only with you for your money. That’s not generosity — that’s delusion.”

2. Enjoying Life Outside While Your Home Is a War Zone

The so-called "outside life" culture among men came under fire as Dr. Mining exposed how weekend partying often overshadows family responsibilities.

“You’re a ‘big man’ at the club, but your wife is home thinking about how to pay rent. One day, when the drinks run out and the fake friends disappear, the only person who might still be there is the woman you abandoned — if she hasn’t left already.”

3. Sponsoring Another Man’s Wife

Calling it one of the most embarrassing modern mistakes, Dr. Mining highlighted the trend of men financially investing in women who have no plans for a future with them.

“You’re paying rent, data, hair and nails for someone who’s waiting for a real husband to marry her. When the wedding comes, you won’t be the groom — just the fool who funded it.”

4. Thinking a Sex Worker or Side Chick Loves You

Dr. Mining didn’t mince words when addressing men who confuse financial transactions for genuine affection.

“She doesn’t love you — she loves your wallet. The moment your account balance drops, she will disappear faster than free WiFi in a crowded hall. You’re not her type — your money is.”

5. Being a “Big Man” Outside, but Broke at Home

Perhaps the harshest rebuke was reserved for men who put on a show for society while their homes fall apart.

“You’re drinking imported whiskey in public while your children drink garri at home. Your friends see you as a chairman, but your family sees you as a liability. That’s not manhood — it’s performance.”

A Call for Men to Wake Up

In conclusion, Dr. John Mining urged men to stop chasing public approval and start honoring their private responsibilities.

“You want peace? Prioritize your family. You want respect? Earn it at home first. All the ‘big man’ energy on the streets means nothing if your wife is crying and your children are barefoot.”