“‘You Will Never Succeed, They Said” — What Happened After I Refused to Give Up Shocked Everyone in the Village

 



They said it openly, without shame. At the shopping center in Kanyadhiang’ Village, Siaya County, men laughed as I passed. Women whispered behind their lesos. Even children repeated the words they heard at home: “That one will never succeed.” My name is Otieno, the last-born in a poor family of five, raised by a widowed mother, Mama Achieng’, in a mud house with a leaking roof. Every morning, I walked past the same people who mocked me, carrying a torn notebook and big dreams that nobody believed in.

Life was hard. After finishing secondary school, I failed to join college because we had no money. I tried small jobs—burning charcoal, carrying stones at construction sites, selling vegetables by the roadside—but nothing lasted. Each failure added fuel to the village gossip. Jared, my childhood friend, stopped greeting me. Uncle Onyango told my mother to stop “wasting prayers” on a hopeless child. Even my girlfriend Atieno left, saying she wanted a man “with direction.” At night, I lay awake listening to the wind hit our iron sheets, wondering if the village was right.

One evening, after a particularly bad day when I was chased from a construction site for asking to be paid my balance, I sat outside our house and cried like a child. My mother sat next to me, silent for a long time. Then she said, “My son, not everyone who laughs today will laugh tomorrow.” Her words stayed with me, but the weight in my heart did not lift. I felt blocked—like no matter how hard I tried, something invisible was holding me back.

My life took an unexpected turn. A neighbour, Mama Ruth, noticed my struggle and quietly pulled me aside. She said, “Otieno, sometimes hard work is not enough. You need guidance.” That is when she told me about Dr Bokko, a man who had helped many people realign their lives when things were stuck.

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I hesitated at first. I had heard many stories—some true, some exaggerated. But something inside me said, “Try one last time.” The next morning, I borrowed my cousin’s phone and made the call. Dr Bokko listened calmly as I poured out my story—every failure, every insult, every closed door. He did not interrupt. When I finished, he said gently, “Your problem is not lack of effort. Your path needs correction.”

After following his guidance, I felt a strange peace. Not magic, not noise—just clarity. For the first time in years, my mind was calm. Days later, an opportunity came from nowhere. A former teacher, Mr. Oduor, called me and asked if I could help him register a small agribusiness project he was starting near Bondo Town. I had no experience, but I said yes. I worked day and night—learning, asking questions, making mistakes, correcting them.

The project grew faster than we expected. Within six months, we were supplying vegetables to hotels in Siaya and Kisumu. Mr. Oduor trusted me with more responsibility. I learned about records, suppliers, and negotiations. For the first time, money stayed in my pocket. I repaired my mother’s house. I bought her a new mattress. When I walked through the village, people stared—not laughing this time, but silent.

Jared came back, pretending nothing had happened. Uncle Onyango started calling me “my son.” Atieno sent a message saying she was happy for me. I did not reply. I had learned something important: not everyone deserves front-row seats in your comeback. What mattered was the journey and the lessons.

One year later, I registered my own company and employed three young men from the same village that mocked me. On the opening day, the assistant chief came. People clapped. Someone whispered, “Is this the same Otieno?” I stood there, smiling quietly. In my heart, I remembered the nights I cried, the words that cut deep, and the moment I decided not to give up.

Today, when young people come to me discouraged, I tell them the truth: people will doubt you when your life does not make sense to them. They will speak limits over your future. But your story is not written by the village. It is written by your choices, your persistence, and sometimes, the courage to seek help when you are stuck.

They said I would never succeed. I refused to give up. And what happened next shocked everyone in the village—including me.

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