I Used to Think Infertility Was a Woman’s Problem, Turns Out I Couldn’t Make My Wife Conceive

 

I used to think infertility was a woman’s problem.

That’s what society teaches us, right?
When there are no children in a marriage, all eyes turn to the woman. People start whispering,
“Why is she not getting pregnant?”
“Maybe she aborted before marriage.”
“She’s cursed.”

That’s what I believed too, until I learned the hard way that I was the problem.

My wife and I had been married for four years. No child. Not even a miscarriage. Just endless waiting.
She cried silently every month when her periods came. She’d hold onto her lower belly and fake a smile. I’d pat her back and say,
“God’s timing is best.”
But deep down, I was tired too. Tired of buying pregnancy tests. Tired of the pressure from family. Tired of people asking,
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